Jesus did not publicly shame, threaten, or otherwise coerce people to come to repentance, which is why our efforts to do so “in Jesus name” only serve to drive them away from Him. The good news of the gospel is not the judgement to come, it is that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us, and that this amazing grace is still available today.
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Thought for the Day – The Path to Repentance
Posted in Commentaries, Heart of "The Father", Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged amazing grace, good news, judgement to come, repentance, sinners on October 30, 2016| Leave a Comment »
10 Things that Become Apparent When You Become a Parent
Posted in Commentaries, Lists, Opinions, Parenting / Family, tagged boundaries, do as I say, doting, fear, parenting, perfection, prepare, yelling on September 13, 2016| Leave a Comment »
- Every child is their own story. What works with one doesn’t necessarily work with another. Different things inspire them, motivate them, scare them, and hurt them. Though there may be some broad tenets that apply to all, each one requires a unique approach.
- Perfection cannot be the goal. No matter how hard we try, we will not be perfect parents; and demanding perfection from our kids simply makes them feel as though nothing they do is ever good enough.
- Boundaries are meant to keep kids safe, not to keep them from the “good stuff”. Though, as children, we all tested our limits; as parents, we cannot ignore the benefit of hindsight.
- Fear is a lousy teacher. Consistently playing on a child’s fear ultimately destroys their ability to function effectively.
- Our children’s perception of themselves is powerfully impacted by what we say to and about them. Giving voice to our fears, frustrations and disappointments can scar them for life.
- Consistently yelling at kids makes them hard of hearing. For survival sake, they simply begin to tune us out.
- “Do as I say, not as I do” doesn’t work. We cannot hope to hold our kids to a standard that we ourselves do not adhere to.
- Though we naturally want to protect our children, it is also our job to prepare them for life without us. Finding the balance between those two things is a long and demanding process.
- No matter how doting, diligent and devoted we are as parents, our kids will face adversity, and they will make mistakes. We cannot be shocked when it happens, and we need to prepare them for those moments.
- Love covers a multitude of sins (yours and theirs). When combined with faith, it forms the only wild card that we have in our parenting deck.
5 Things I’ve Stopped Saying / 5 Things I Find Myself Saying Over and Over
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, tagged God is in control, it's in God's hands, let it go, lucky, moral victory, no one can make you happy, shame, you're in my thoughts and prayers on August 29, 2016| Leave a Comment »
5 Things I’ve Stopped Saying
- “Shame on you!”: Though shame is a natural human emotion, I don’t think that it is ever my place to pronounce it over someone. For the spiritually minded, these words are a type of curse.
- “I am lucky”: I’m not really a big supporter of the idea that the fickle winds of fate just spontaneously blow in my favor. I actually sense that there is someone looking out for me, so I ascribe to the belief that, “I am blessed”.
- “There is no such thing as a moral victory”: In an era of “win at all costs”, this notion has become generally accepted; but for many human beings, a moral victory is the only kind they will ever experience. Like teaching a baby to walk, moral victories constitute the first small steps toward consistent success. People who don’t believe in such things often burn themselves (& others) out, trying to run before they’ve developed the ability to stand.
- “God is in control”: Though I’m a big believer that there is an all-powerful God residing up in heaven, my understanding is that He’s not the one pulling the strings down here on a daily basis. My reading of the Bible indicates that He gave the earth to mankind and that He only intervenes as we invite Him to. Ultimately, this is what makes prayer such a necessary and powerful tool.
- “I can’t help it”: Life has taught me that I probably can, if I really wanted to.
5 Things I Find Myself Saying Over & Over Again
- “No one can make you happy”: People can support us, love us, inspire us, and even enhance the quality of our life. But unless we determine within ourselves to find the joy, the beauty and the hope within our given circumstance, we will never be “happy”. The idea that it is someone else’s role to bring happiness into our life places tremendous pressure on our relationships, which often causes them to fail.
- “It is what it is”: Age has shown me that life comes at us however it chooses to. We may not like it, but it never seems to ask our opinion or permission. We can deny it, complain about it, feel sorry for ourselves… but eventually we just have to deal with it. It is what it is.
- “It’s in God’s hands”: This seems like a contradiction of my “God is in Control” thought, but it really isn’t. The longer I live, the more I recognize that things are out of my hands, so I quickly put them in God’s hands. Then I struggle mightily to stand in faith and leave them there.
- “Let it go”: Holding on to something poisonous makes you sick, and things like envy, greed, anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, bigotry, frustration, depression… are ultimately toxic to our soul. Everybody sing it with me; Let it go, Let it go…
- “You’re in my thoughts and prayers”: I suppose that as Christianity has fallen out of favor within our culture it is no longer politically correct to mention prayer; as you now simply hear, “you’re in my thoughts”. And while it is nice to know that people are thinking about you, I’m not sure that it does much else. I’m still an advocate for calling on some heavenly intervention, and letting you know that I’m battling for you.
Thought for the Day – Having a Good Day
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged afraid, circumstance, disappointed, frustrated, good day, hurt, mad, sad on August 26, 2016| Leave a Comment »
We should not expect a “good day” to run through the obstacle course of our circumstance and find us. Indeed, it is incumbent upon us to press through the crowd of impediments and apprehend it. Every day comes with an armload of reasons to be sad, mad, hurt, disappointed, frustrated, or afraid. And if we choose to make any one of those the centerpiece of our consciousness, there is no “good day” with the power to wrestle it from us. (Deuteronomy 30:15)
Thought for the Day – Poisoned Apples
Posted in Commentaries, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged just and unjust, presumption, right and wrong, self-made, the tree of the knowlege of good and evil on August 18, 2016| Leave a Comment »
The fruit of the “Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil” (Genesis 2:17) is presumption. Partaking of it allows us to believe that we can rightfully discern for ourselves what is right and wrong; what is just and unjust; and ultimately, what is in our best interests. It’s pulp nourishes the notion that we are self-made and dependent on no one.
Thought for the Day – Mission Statement
Posted in Commentaries, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged character of Jesus, heart of Jesus, personal connection to Jesus on November 1, 2016| Leave a Comment »
If the mission is to help people forge a connection to the person of Jesus Christ, there is perhaps nothing more damaging to that cause than to misrepresent His heart and character to them.
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