Don’t mistake obsession for love. Obsession will drive a person to destroy the thing they claim to love rather than seeing it belong to someone else, while real love would rather set that thing free than see it destroyed.
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Thought for the Day – Obsession
Posted in Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged belong to someone else, obsession on March 11, 2019| Leave a Comment »
Thought for the Day – Wavering
Posted in Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged double minded, two opinions, waver, wavering on February 18, 2019| Leave a Comment »
I awoke to the sound of the prophet’s voice calling out to God’s people, “How long shall you waver between two opinions?”
If He is for us, who can be against us?
If He gave us a sound mind, and a spirit that is without fear, how are we paralyzed with depression and anxiety?
If He works all things to our good, and is faithful to complete the good work He’s begun in us, how can we be without hope?
There is no doubt that a double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.
“If the Lord be God, follow Him.”
Thought for the Day – Childish Things
Posted in Commentaries, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged childish, covet, covetousness, imaginations, impatience, jealousy, self centered, sensitive, tantrums, transformation on February 12, 2019| Leave a Comment »
The Apostle Paul said, “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” Throughout the epistles he exhorts us to do the same. Recently, I’ve sensed the Lord highlighting some of the childish things that need to be put away.
First and foremost, a child is self-centered. A baby has no capacity to concern itself with whether its parents are tired or busy or sick, it just knows that it’s not comfortable (e.g. hungry, wet, gassy, tired) and it demands immediate attention. Presumably, as we get older, our awareness of other people and their struggles grows, but in times of trouble we can easily return to our infancy, becoming blind and numb to anything other than our own wants, needs, or pain.
As a baby grows into a child it becomes increasingly responsive to external stimuli, like light, color, noise, music, touch… and through this it learns to interact with the world around it. Eventually, these external forces begin to shape the child’s concept of life and identity. But as we grow in spiritual maturity, we’re called to become less responsive to what is seen (which is perishing), and more sensitive to what is unseen (which is eternal).
Young children tend to easily fall into covetousness when they see something they want, jealousy when someone else has what they want, and to have tantrums, when they don’t get what they want. It is not a given that age and experience will cause us to grow past these things. Often, we simply become more subtle in the ways we express them.
Children are also famous for their impatience and fertile imaginations, both of which can become powerful tools in the hands of the adversary.
Indeed, the scripture admonishes us to humbly esteem others above ourselves, to bless and serve those around us, and to be “quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry”. It commands us not to covet, warns us against the “acts of the flesh” (including jealousy, selfish ambition, fits of rage) and reminds us that “self-control” is a fruit of the Holy Spirit. It tells us that we must cast down our imaginations, to learn to “wait on the Lord”, and to embrace patience as a reflection of Christ’s character. Throughout the New Testament it speaks of the transformation that God desires to work in each of us, and He assures us that He is faithful to complete this good work that He’s begun in us.
It’s likely that none of us want to think of ourselves as being childish, but I sense the Lord challenging us to allow Him to reveal the “childish things” that we still need to put away. To uncover those instances where we’ve become callous and numb to other people’s pain, or those circumstances that we’ve unwittingly become slaves to, or those things that we’re coveting and maybe even making into idols. To show us those places within our heart where self-pity, jealousy, and bitterness dwell; and to expose the imaginings that have replaced the genuine prophetic vision He means to give us.
Like David did in the Psalms, we need to invite Him to examine our hearts. “Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting”. Amen.
Thought for the Day – More Sickening than a Sex Trafficker
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged pornographers, sex traffickers on January 15, 2019| Leave a Comment »
More sickening than the Pornographers and the Sex Traffickers are those who create the incredible demand for what they do.
Thought for the Day – A New Year
Posted in Commentaries, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged thoughts for a new year on January 3, 2019| 2 Comments »
I’ve seen a lot of whimsical thoughts posted about the new year, but after more than half a century on the planet it comes down to this for me. The coming year will undoubtedly feature moments of exhilaration, and of disappointment; sunny days and storms; periods of monotony, and others filled with unscripted drama. Each day will come with a thousand reasons to be sad or mad, while joy will only be found by those who diligently seek it. None of us has much control over the elements that swirl around our existence, but we have a great deal of say in how we respond to them. If we don’t learn to overcome the hurts of the past, they will most certainly overcome us. If we don’t take control of our thoughts and fears, they will undoubtedly take control of us. If we refuse to acknowledge and learn from our mistakes, we are bound to keep repeating them. And if we try to govern people and circumstances that are outside our control, we will only frustrate and exhaust ourselves. As the old prayer goes, God grant me the strength to change the things I can change, the patience to live with the things I cannot, and the wisdom to know the difference between the two. There are blessings in this new year, but Amazon Prime won’t be delivering them to our door step.
Thought for the Day – A Means to an End
Posted in Heart of "The Father", Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged means to an end, using God on December 17, 2018| Leave a Comment »
God means to be the end we are pursuing, not the means we use to pursue some other end.
Thought for the Day – The Burden of Our Weakness
Posted in Commentaries, Parenting / Family, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged burden, parents, weakness on November 19, 2018| Leave a Comment »
Children carry the burden of their parents weakness.
Thought for the Day – Smiling Faces Sometimes
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged beware, scapegoat, smiling faces, sympathetic, the undisputed truth, victim on April 4, 2019| Leave a Comment »
Back in the early 1970s, Motown artists, “The Undisputed Truth” had a big hit with their song, “Smiling Faces Sometimes”. I appreciated the “Sometimes” in the title, because more often than not I believe there is something genuine behind a smile, but not always. Aside from being a great record to listen to, the song’s lyrics contained a warning that is still worth remembering today. They said:
Smiling faces sometimes pretend to be your friend
Smiling faces show no traces of the evil that lurks within
Smiling faces, smiling faces sometimes they don’t tell the truth
Smiling faces, smiling faces tell lies and I got proof
later it adds
Beware of the handshake
that hides the snake
I’m telling you beware of the pat on the back,
it just might hold you back
The fact that people can be deceptive isn’t exactly breaking news, but within our current cultural climate I’m sensing a growing level of susceptibility toward soothing and sympathetic voices. Given the terse rhetoric that dominates our societal landscape, it’s not hard to understand the desire for a friendlier, more welcoming tone, but like the song says, appearances can be deceiving.
Beware of the sympathetic voice that encourages you to see yourself as a victim, it may be the thing that keeps you from overcoming the past
Beware of the compassionate voice that tells you that you can’t help being addicted, it may just want to be your new drug (e.g. Suboxone, Methadone…) supplier
Beware of the benevolent politician who offers to take care of you, they may well be working on their own private pension plan
Beware of the zealot who offers you a scapegoat for all your troubles, they may be distracting you from the real enemy
Remember that not everyone who agrees with you is for you, and not everyone who disagrees with you is against you.
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