The Apostle James was a leader of the early church in Jerusalem, and as such, his epistle is filled with practical guidance for Believers who are living in the midst of a culture that is often hostile to their value system. Early in his letter he says that “Everyone should be quick to listen,slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires” (James 1:19-20). Wow, imagine how following that counsel might impact our social media activity. A few verses later he lets the reader know that this is more than just friendly advice, when he adds, “Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless” (James 1:26). Ouch!
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Thought for the Day – The Other Side of the Sword
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged Apostle James, epistle, quick to listen, slow to become angry, slow to speak, tight rein on the tongue on July 25, 2016| Leave a Comment »
Thought for the Day – Francis J. Grimke
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged civil rights, golden rule, Grimke, race prejudice, racism on July 21, 2016| Leave a Comment »
Francis J. Grimke was the byproduct of relationship between his white, plantation owning father, and a mixed race, enslaved mother. He grew up to be a passionate supporter of the civil rights movement in the early 1900s, and was also a Presbyterian minister in Washington DC. I recently ran across a couple of his quotes, which I think speak directly to where we find ourselves today.
“The secession of the Southern States in 1860 was a small matter compared with the secession of the Union itself from the great principles enunciated in the Declaration of Independence, in the Golden Rule, the Ten Commandments, in the Sermon on the Mount. Unless we hold, and hold firmly to these great fundamental principles of righteousness, … our Union… will be only a covenant with death and an agreement with hell.”
He also said, “Race prejudice cannot be talked down, it must be lived down.”
Thought for the Day – Solving World Hunger
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged no control, serenity prayer on May 19, 2016| Leave a Comment »
I believe that much of our day to day struggle is rooted in trying to wrap our minds and arms around situations which are not ours to fix, and over which we have little or no control. Indeed, I suspect that this is why so many 12 step programs begin with the “Serenity Prayer” (i.e. Lord, grant me the strength to change the things I can change, the patience to live with the things I can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference between the two). Engaging in battles for which we’re not commissioned not only causes us to become exhausted and frustrated, it often results in us missing the opportunity to change the things we actually can. It is akin to the person who is so preoccupied with solving world hunger that they fail to notice the hungry man they pass on the street.
Thought for the Day – My Mother
Posted in Commentaries, Parenting / Family, Personal, Thought for the Day / Quotes, Tributes, tagged hurtful choices, Mother's Day, parenting, prayers of protection, problem child, refused to give up, tribute on May 9, 2016| Leave a Comment »
Clearly, I meant to post this yesterday. But, as is so often the case, things got away from me.
Over the years I’ve written a few tributes to my father, but I don’t recall ever doing so for my mom. I’m sure this has to do with the fact that my dad contracted a terminal illness (and passed away) at a relatively young age. But honor shouldn’t be reserved for the dead, and kind words ought not be saved for eulogies. So on the occasion of Mother’s Day, I thought it would be fitting to share a few thoughts about my mother.
My parents had four children, three stair step boys, and then, more than a decade removed, a daughter. I was the bottom rung of the first wave, and easily my parents most challenging kid. My oldest brother was one of those precocious children, who talked as though he was 35 years old by the time he was six. Our middle brother was quiet, but did well in school, and excelled at every sport he ever played (My grandmother actually referred to him as her “Golden Boy”). And then, I came along. Blind as a bat, emotionally unstable, and full of imagination; I was literally walking into walls by the time I reached school age. Between struggles in the classroom, skirmishes on the playground, and little brother meltdowns, I was a kid who required a lot of parenting. And because of my father’s demanding Air Force career, the lion’s share of that fell to my mom. I have no doubt that it was at times exasperating, and exhausting to deal with me. Lord knows, that was the way it felt to be me. But my mother was never one to shrink back from a challenge, and she wouldn’t let me do so either. As much as I wanted to accept the rather overwhelming evidence that I was simply an inferior model, she was having none of it. She made it her mission to ensure that all of her kids would be ready to face to the world, and little by little, I began to pull out of my tailspin.
Unfortunately, just about the time I grew strong enough to stand on my own two feet, I began to drift into things that my parents had strictly forbidden. My weak sense of identity caused me to look for the place that I fit in, and resulted in me trying a little bit of everything. In those years, I made many disappointing and hurtful choices, but my parents stuck with me. My mom’s persistent belief, and her prayers of protection, were without a doubt a key to surviving that season. Though I broke her heart many times, she refused to give up on me.
It took some years, but the seeds that were planted throughout my life finally took root, and things began to turn. God finally convinced me that my mother had been right all along, and that I wasn’t some sort of defective piece of machinery. In His grace, God allowed me to become a father, where I gained a new appreciation for the kind of love it takes to raise a kid like me. As I look back, I can’t help but think that God gave me to a mother that He knew would be strong enough to fight the battles, and persistent enough to go the distance. Indeed, my mother is an extraordinary person, whose love for me has made all the difference. If not for her, I would not have become the man that I am today.
As I look back, I thank God for the love that she and my father shared, which showed us that marriage was meant to last a lifetime. I thank God that she refused to raise boys who sit around in the underwear, watch cartoons and don’t know the first thing about taking care of themselves (or anyone else). And I thank God that after years of dealing with my disarray, He rewarded my parents with their best kid, my sister.
Happy Mother’s Day mom!
Thought for the Day – A Big Gulp
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged blessing, dispenser, grace on May 4, 2016| Leave a Comment »
We must remember that the cup we choose to dispense grace with today will be the same one used to serve our blessings for tomorrow. (Matt 7:2, Mark 4:24, Luke 6:28) If we feel as though our lives are lacking in the area of blessing, it might be a good time to select a new dispenser.
Thought for the Day – Patting Yourself on the Back
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged lack of contempt, proud, religious establishment, sinners, the worldly on May 1, 2016| Leave a Comment »
When Jesus walked the earth, He was not put off by sinners. In fact, He was roundly criticized by the religious establishment for His lack of contempt for them. And so it is today; it is not the weak, the lost, and the worldly that He resists. It is the proud.
Thought for the Day – Insecurity
Posted in Commentaries, Opinions, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged coerce, insecurity, manipulation, self-doubt on July 27, 2016| Leave a Comment »
Insecurity will often cause a person to try to gain by manipulation what others would willingly give to them (e.g. attention, affection, respect). Self-doubt convinces them that illegitimate means are the only way to obtain what is legitimately available to them. Ultimately, these attempts to coerce are often what drive people away, which only serves to reinforce their feelings of insecurity.
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