Jesus observed that while men plant seeds in the ground, they don’t really understand what it is that makes them grow (Mark 4:26-27). Paul later explained to the Corinthians that though we have the ability to plant and water, only God can bring the increase (1 Cor.3:7). In John’s gospel, the Lord further clarifies that unless a kernel falls to the ground and dies, it has a minimal potential to produce any real fruit (John 12:23-26). Thus, preaching the gospel in a way that leaves out taking up your cross, dying to self, and sacrificial living, has little chance of leading to life.
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Thought for the Day – Essential Ingredient
Posted in Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged dying to self, fruit, increase, life, plant, sacrificial living, seed, water on July 1, 2024| Leave a Comment »
3 Biblical Concepts Vanishing from Western Christianity
Posted in Commentaries, tagged covetous, covetousness, deception, dream, dying to self, imagination, selfish, selfless, transformation, vision on April 3, 2024| Leave a Comment »
Covetous:
As with all sin, covetous short-circuits Gods plan to give us abundant life. He wants us to find the extravagant provision (e.g. peace, joy, rest, hope, strength…) that He’s made for us, while the enemy of our souls seeks to keep us connected to a temporal sense of lack. Since we don’t covet what we already have, the act of coveting keeps us focused on what we don’t have. Pursuit of those things generally blinds us to the blessings we already possess and drives us toward vain attempts to gain our lives.
It’s the enemy’s treadmill to have us waste the precious time and resources that we’ve been given chasing some elusive promise of fulfillment. In those instances when we are successful in attaining the coveted object, we most often find that it is not nearly as satisfying as we’d hoped. In those times the enemy generally begins to dangle “the next big thing” in front of us and soon we’re off and running again. This picture is in stark contrast to the scripture.
The book of Hebrews tells us to keep our lives free of covetousness and to be content with whatever we have (Heb.13:5). Paul also testified that he’d learned to be contented in all situations (Phil.4:11). This is the same freedom the Lord intends for us. We’re told that if we seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, all of the other things will be added to us, and we are warned that our attempts to gain our life will ultimately cause us to lose it.
As with so many other things, we in the church are often more conformed to the culture than to the word of God. Sadly, the consumer mentality is rampant in the church and covetousness is a sin that is openly committed without repentance.
In Charismatic/Pentecostal circles, leaders often invite people to covet the gifts, and callings of those who appear to be more “anointed” than themselves, and those who preach the prosperity gospel encourage people to covet the lifestyles of those who appear to be more “blessed” than they are. We may rationalize it as being “goal oriented” or the pursuit of the “American Dream”, but it is covetous in its truest form, and it keeps us from walking in the fullness Christ died to give us.
Dying to Self:
Western Christianity has largely replaced the concept of self-sacrifice (i.e. dying to self, esteeming others above ourselves, sharing in Christ’s suffering…) with self-actualization (i.e. empowerment, fulfillment, blessing, calling, gifts…). This revised version of the gospel allows one to live their best life here on earth, and then ascend to their heavenly mansion.
But I would submit that becoming “the best version of yourself” is not necessarily the same as becoming the person you were created to be. The latter requires the involvement of the Creator.
Dying to self is a moment by moment proposition (1 Cor. 15:36). There is no level of sanctification, anointing, or calling that exempts us from the need to surrender our lives, and submit our wills on a daily basis (Luke 14:27). Without an ongoing commitment to partake of the divine nature (2 Peter 1:4), we are bound to fall to our human nature (Prov. 14:12).
Ultimately, we cannot hope to ‘make disciples (Matt.28:19)” unless we are disciples, and we cannot be disciples unless we are willing to deny ourselves and take up our cross “daily” (Luke 9:23).
Imaginations:
Though dreams and visions are referenced throughout the scripture, the most often cited application in the modern context seems to center on Proverbs 29:18 (Where there is no vision, the people perish…) and Joel 2:28 (your old men shall dream dreams, your young men shall see visions…). Both tend to be used as proof texts for the idea that God gives certain people (most commonly in leadership positions) visions of and for the future, which subordinates should gather around, and support. While there may be a thread of truth in all that, the scope and magnitude to which it is promoted is at the very least exaggerated, and at times patently deceptive.
The vision spoken of in Proverbs 29 is a present tense revelation from God, and this passage (verse 18) is simply pointing out that in the absence of such divine guidance, people will revert to what is right in their own eyes, which ultimately leads to death (Prov.14:12).
Too often, the “vision” presented by church leadership amounts to detailed plans, strategies and goals for the future, which almost always center on the building of their ministry. Ostensibly, God will be gloried in that process.
Visionary leaders can build strong organizations, beautiful facilities, and lasting legacies, but unless people are growing closer to the Lord, and are being transformed into His image, the Kingdom of God is not significantly impacted. Frequently, the followers of this type of leader are simply transformed into their image.
In my own experience, I have found that the God who exists outside of time, who tells me not to worry about tomorrow, and who knows the end from the beginning, is not fretting about the future, or His ability to preserve me in the midst of adversity. And that the God who offers us daily bread, and to be a lamp unto our feet, is not prone to give long term plans and strategies that would allow me to go very far without His direct interaction. Indeed, man’s obsession with knowing and controlling the future is rooted in fear, and that spirit does not come from Him.
What generally goes unspoken are the scriptures numerous warnings of how our pride and imaginations can lead us into deception. Zechariah spoke of idols that speak deceitfully, diviners who see visions that lie, and tell dreams that are false (Zech.10.2). Obadiah warned of how pride can cause deception of the heart (Obad.1:3). Isaiah spoke of those who “prophesy illusions” (Isa.30:10). Jeremiah warned of the delusions our minds can conjure (Jer.14:14), while Ezekiel spoke of those who prophesy out of their imagination (Eze.13:2).
Given the scriptures emphasis on these, and many other warnings, it would seem vital to discern between dreams and visions which are birthed from the Spirit of God, and those which come from the fertile imagination of their host. While imagination is a reflection of God’s creativity, it is also subject to the folly of our fallen nature, and is frequently a useful tool in the hands of our enemy.
The people of Babel imagined that building a tower that reached the heavens would bring them fame (Gen.11). Sarai devised a strategy to fulfill God’s promise to Abram (Gen.16). Peter had a plan to protect Jesus (John 18:10-11). And Saul imagined that he was serving God’s purposes by orchestrating the persecution of Christ’s followers (Acts 9). Ultimately, they all found themselves in opposition to God’s will.
On a more practical level, convincing folks to “serve the vision” generally has the effect of taking their eyes off the One who is the Author and Finisher of their faith, and the only One who has the words of life. If the vision is truly birthed in the Spirit, He will guide them to their role within it. Instead of teaching followers of Christ to “serve the vision”, we need to be teaching them to live by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God, and that His sheep know His voice, they listen and they follow.
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Thought for the Day – Self Actualization
Posted in Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged blessing, dying to self, empowerment, self, self actualization, self sacrifice on March 27, 2024| Leave a Comment »
Western Christianity has largely replaced the concept of self-sacrifice (i.e. dying to self, esteeming others above ourselves, sharing in Christ’s suffering…) with self-actualization (i.e. empowerment, fulfillment, blessing, calling, gifts…). This revised version of the gospel allows one to live their best life here on earth, and then ascend to their heavenly mansion.
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Thought for the Day – Non-Exempt
Posted in Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged anointing, calling, daily, divine nature, dying to self, human nature, sanctification, self on November 28, 2023| Leave a Comment »
Dying to self is a moment by moment proposition (1 Cor. 15:36). There is no level of sanctification, anointing, or calling that exempts us from the need to surrender our lives, and submit our wills on a daily basis (Luke 14:27). Without an ongoing commitment to partake of the divine nature (2 Peter 1:4), we are bound to fall to our human nature (Prov. 14:12).
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Thought for the Day – The Pursuit of Happiness
Posted in Commentaries, Thought for the Day / Quotes, tagged dying to self, gaining your life, pursuit of God, pursuit of happiness, seek and you will find on December 30, 2019| 1 Comment »
Make no mistake, there is a world of difference between the pursuit of happiness and the pursuit of God. One is rooted in the temporal, while the other is rooted in the eternal. One is about gaining your life, while the other is about losing it. One is centered on edifying self, while the other is centered on dying to self. One is endlessly elusive, while the other comes with the promise that if you seek, you will find.
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Child’s Play
Posted in Commentaries, tagged children, Christ's image, compare, compete, covet, dying to self, envy, greed, poison, self, self-actualization, transformed, unity on January 30, 2025| 1 Comment »
At the time of this writing, my two youngest granddaughters are 2 and 3 years old respectively. Though they are cousins, they have spent a tremendous amount of their young lives together, and relate to each other more like siblings. When they are apart, they pine away for each other, and whenever they come together, it is with great enthusiasm and affection. But I’ve noticed that it doesn’t take very long for that initial excitement to wear off, and for contentiousness to rise up in its place.
It tends to start with one of them noticing what the other one has in their hands, or maybe what they’re wearing, and wanting it for themselves. In such moments, you can offer them something else, but once they get their eyes (and hearts) fixed on that one “thing”, it becomes the only thing that will do. There can be doll houses, and scooters, and stuffed animals, but they will suddenly be in a death match over some little plastic piece from yesterday’s Happy Meal.
One may like hamburgers, while the other prefers chicken nuggets, but when they’re together they insist on having whatever the other one is having, even if they won’t actually eat it. If you don’t get them both the same thing, one will feel as though you have somehow favored the other, and treated them unfairly.
When we have only one of the girls, they can go through long stretches of the day being fairly content, but when they are together, it is difficult to go 15 minutes without some form of conflict. Despite their genuine affection for each other, this endless cycle of comparing, coveting and competing tends to steal the joy of their time together.
Anyone who has spent much time around toddlers, or young children would likely attest to the fact that this kind of behavior is typical, especially amongst children who grow up together (e.g. siblings). But something that is rarely acknowledged is how intact this pattern carries over into our adult interactions. While we may eventually learn not to throw ourselves on the floor and cry over the sippy cup, we often remain just as prone to our emotional tantrums, which can be even more destructive than those of our childhood.
This becomes most evident when we try to gather with people we claim to care about, whether that is our family, our neighbors, or in our churches. Though we enthusiastically endorse the concepts of tight-knit families, healthy communities, and Christian fellowship, we struggle to achieve or sustain any of them. Like my granddaughters, we like the idea of being together, yet rarely experience the fulfillment that was meant to accompany it; because like them, we fall into this perilous cycle.
Jesus said the way people would be able to distinguish His followers from other groups would be by the way they loved one another, and that is a standard the “Christian” community has rarely risen to. Indeed, “church people” are more typically known for their divisive and contentious behavior.
While some might want to rationalize that this is simply a maturity issue, I would beg to differ. In my experience, the most seasoned congregants are frequently the most zealously quarrelsome, and sadly, gatherings of religious leaders are generally the clearest example of the compare-covet-compete dynamic.
As western Christianity continues to abandon concepts like dying to self, and being transformed into Christ’s image, in favor of promoting ideals like empowerment, and self-actualization, this issue is bound to get worse. “Self” is the toxin that ultimately poisons unity.
We see this played out in the entertainment world, as young musicians band together in order to create something transcendent. At first, they openly share their gifts, and often go through years of struggle together to achieve their dreams. But upon finding success, this bond is frequently destroyed by power struggles, greed and envy.
Similarly, young athletes will often team together in pursuit of a championship. On the way up, players will make sacrifices and accept the role the team needs them to play. But after a taste of success, everyone wants to be treated like a star, and the team chemistry is destroyed.
As disciples of Christ, we cannot afford to continue to fall into this standard pattern of human behavior. Unless and until we confront the issue of “self”, we have no hope of ever functioning as a body, where each part provides something for the greater good of the whole (Rom.12:3-8, 1Cor.12:12-26).
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