It’s amazing to realize that “Thanksgiving” is already upon us. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed that while the days don’t pass any quicker, the months and years seem to fly by. This year has moved by so rapidly that I feel as though I’ve missed much of it. As we come into what ought to be a special season, I can already sense the dread that many people feel during this time of year. On the surface it all seems bright and shiny, but in recent years I’ve begun to notice how few people really seem to enjoy it. Though our calendars fill up with “special” activities, I don’t sense much “peace on earth”, “goodwill toward man” or “joy to the world”. Even within the church, I don’t see a lot of genuine excitement at what should be, for Christians, a time of worship and celebration.
Sadly, we all tend to get caught up in the busyness (e.g. cooking, baking, shopping, holiday parties, traveling, guests, holiday programs…) and miss much of the richness this season has to offer. While we’ll be the first to proclaim that “Jesus is the reason for the season”, He doesn’t always get a place of prominence in our holiday activities. So as we launch into yet another holiday season, God put it on my heart to stop long enough to gain some perspective.
I believe that at the root of much of the seasonal angst is unfulfilled expectation; whether that comes in the form of past disappointments or the present dissatisfaction with where we find ourselves. The inherently nostalgic quality of the season can often stir up more painful memories than warm thoughts. Those who grew up in dysfunctional homes often come face to face with that dysfunction again, whether it is gathering with their families or intentionally avoiding the pain of such a reunion. Those who are in the midst of difficult situations often feel more isolated in this time, because presumably everyone else is full of holiday cheer. Those of limited means struggle, because we’ve all come to believe that Christmas cannot be complete unless it comes with boxes and ribbons. Many of us wrestle with the notion that if we can’t give our kids what all the other kids have, we’ve somehow failed them. For others, it can be the uncertainties of a new year that keep them from partaking of the joy set before them. Ultimately, if we are dreading the holidays, we will almost certainly have a dreadful holiday season. For those who are in the world, these are simply the seas which toss souls about; but what about the children of God? Are these the forces that should be shaping our perspective?
If we could look at the reality of where we are today, apart from the disappointments of the past and our fears for the future, we might see that we are a genuinely blessed people. Regardless of our situations, God has provided for us and continues to sustain us. We may feel as though we have lack, but if we can see past what we don’t have, we will likely find that we have unnoticed abundance all around us. The Psalmist spoke of how God wants to teach us of His ways and he beseeches that we not be like the horse or mule, which must be controlled using a bit and bridle. That picture is one of needing to use pain as a way to get our attention. I believe that if we will look for the blessings He’s laid aside for today, we will find them; if not, we often must suffer a painful lose before we can understand how truly blessed we were yesterday.
Do we really have to become homeless before we can be thankful for a warm house; even if it isn’t as big or as nice as we’d like. Do we really have to lose someone we love before we can be thankful for the other people in our lives? Do we really have to get sick before we can be thankful for our health? Do we really have to become fugitives or prisoners before we can rejoice in our freedom? Sadly, most of us tend not to appreciate what we have until we lose it, but this season offers us an opportunity to live differently.
Truthfully, this season was never really meant to be about us anyway. We’ve unconsciously allowed the world’s thinking to distract us from the central issue, which is Jesus. While some might regard that as rather obvious, I would guess that most of our holiday attitudes don’t reflect it. When we talk about the sacrifice that Jesus made, we most often speak of the cross. Rightfully so, but before His sacrifice on the cross, Jesus sacrificed His deity; not only to become a man, but to become a man of sorrows, who was acquainted with grief. He sacrificed His perfect fellowship with the Father to come to this earth as a sacrificial lamb. He sacrificed the glory of heaven for a manger, the rejection of man and a cross. Make no mistake; the sacrifice Jesus made at Christmas is no less profound than the one He made at Easter. It was the day that our redemption was set in motion and it certainly warrants a seasons worth of rejoicing.
So as we step into this season, I feel the Lord challenging our motivations and asking what will drive us in this time. Will it be the hurts and disappointment of seasons past; will it be the struggles that we’re facing today, or maybe our fears about what awaits us down the road. Maybe it will be the vain hope that if we just find the right combination of songs & gifts & food & people & decorations, we’ll find the joy of the season. I’d submit that the Lord would like this season to be a season of awe and wonder at the love of our Father in heaven; a season of gratitude for all that He is and all that He’s done for us; a season of renewed relationship with Him and those He’s brought around us.
Who knows what the New Year will bring, but as I stand here today, I am blessed and thankful. He has given and done more than I ever deserved and more than I ever could have hoped for. I pray that you and your family will find His joy and have a wonderful holiday season. God bless you
Mary’s Song
November 24, 2010 by bjcorbin
In these days leading to our celebration of Christmas, I find myself drawn to the words of “Mary’s Song”, from the gospel of Luke (1:46-55). Within this passage Mary is responding to her cousin Elizabeth’s extraordinary greeting as she exclaims, “my soul doth magnify the Lord and my spirit hath rejoiced in God, my Savior”. As I’ve meditated on those words, their profound nature has become more apparent to me. I find myself wanting to understand exactly what it is to “magnify the Lord” and to truly abide in His joy. While I’ve certainly walked with the Lord long enough to give a passable explanation of these things, I have to wonder if I’ve ever actually experienced them first hand.
The Bible says that the joy of the Lord is our strength and while few of us would consider ourselves to be deficient in the area of joy, how many of us have complained about our fatigue (e.g. stress, burn out, exhaustion…). It is unlikely that we as Christians would describe ourselves as joyless, but that seems to be a common adjective used by Non-Christians to describe us. I believe that part of this can be attributed to the fact that we generally mistake happiness for joy; but happiness is a fleeting emotion that is driven largely by circumstance and is easily changed. Joy on the other hand is experienced in our spirit and is rooted in our response to God as opposed to our circumstances; this makes joy more profound, transcendent and sustaining. Happiness is generally something we pursue, while joy is found in our surrender to Gods plan. Mary had surrendered to God’s plan and the joy that she was experiencing caused her own cousin to view her in a totally different light. Undoubtedly this would be the effect on our family, friends and neighbors if we similarly succumbed to the joy that the Lord has afforded us.
Arguably the concept of “magnifying” the Lord is even more vital than that of partaking of His joy. The scripture tells us that our destiny is to be transformed into the image of Christ and that He is faithful to complete the good work that He has begun in us. Based on these verses it would seem that the committed Christian should expect to grow more Christ-like with each passing year of their journey, but from my experience that is rarely true. As I ponder the reasons for this, I wonder if this is even one of our goals and I shudder at the thought of what our souls are magnifying if it is not the Lord. The idea of magnifying is that a clearer, more defined picture will emerge from our interaction and that begs the question of what picture is emerging from the worlds interaction with the church. Jesus is the “light of the world” and He’s called us to reflect that light to a fallen world; but how will that ever be accomplished if His light cannot be seen in us.
Mary understood that something of heaven had been deposited within her and that Gods intent was not simply for her to enjoy the sensations of the baby in her womb or to bestow upon her honor amongst women; but that it was to bring forth that life when the time came. The same is true of believers today, as the Lord has once again deposited Himself within us, not just for our own edification, but so that we will allow Him to come forth at His appointed times. This Christmas I pray that His people everywhere will respond as Mary did when she told the angel, I am the Lord’s servant, let it be as you have said. I pray that we will truly magnify the Lord and genuinely rejoice in Him. God bless you and your family this Christmas.
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